Start working on your self-help goals for 2025. You made the resolutions but are waiting until next week. Well, next week is here. So, stop procrastinating and schedule your cosmetology tutor or beauty career coaching session. At the very least you can download my multiple-choice practice exam for a nominal fee, which also schedules you a 10-minute free call. Read on to learn more.
Professionalism behind the chair is integral to the beauty business. As such, the terminology you employ with your colleagues and guests matters to your revenue. Read further for a few pro tips inspired by a TikTok response.
Cosmetology tutoring anyone? Yes, you! You’re scrolling online, doom-surfing social media after rescheduling your state board cosmetology exam for the third time. Procrastination and laziness have nothing to do with why you have yet to take the practical, written, or both. You’re scared, feel unprepared, and have lost confidence. How can I help? Read further to find out why you need a cosmetology tutor to pass your cosmetology state board exam.
Ask the Pro Stylist is proud to announce beauty career coaching sessions. As an educator and Executive School Director, I often advised students about their goals after graduating. Quite frequently, their paths took a different direction, which is OK. In addition, many would be overwhelmed by an unknown future. Today’s post is a transparent introspection into what pushed me to want to inspire others.
Beauty Career Coaching: Welcome to a New Era for Ask the Pro Stylist
Ask the Pro Stylist is expanding into beauty career coaching. However, some of you might not know what brought me to this moment. So, please allow this introspective glimpse into my past with a clip from a reality TV show where my family and I were featured.
Life or Debt – A Reflection
Reality TV isn’t real. Much of the episode was embellished or frankly untrue. However, even nine years later, it is still a hard mirror to reflect upon. I wanted to break the mirror when I watched it again. My oldest son thinks the part of me lying on the ground as they remix the soundbite, “I’m gonna have a heart attack,” is hysterically funny. I do not. Therefore, let me explain.
Many years before, while in therapy, it was uncovered that I have very visceral reactions to emotional pain and stress. While I lay there on the floor during the episode, at 45 years of age, my chest hurt. I truly thought I was going to have a heart attack, no matter how dramatic it seemed. The tremendous hurt of losing my home and business weighed heavy on my body and my chest. My heart was broken. As a result, my relationship with my husband, the love of my life and my best friend, was failing – fast.
The show focused on me as an “aggressive” hairdresser, but I initially asked the producers for help to expand my career in writing to leave the beauty business. My aggression was my physical reaction to hurt instead of breaking down into tears. I cry, but my gut reaction to emotional pain is aggression.
Bodily Responses to Stress
The visceral responses to stress began in my twenties with persistent medical challenges until I changed my life. Now, in my fifties, I understand the physical cues and have moved to bring peace into my life. Yes, stress rears its burning flame, as does the occasional reaction. However, I am more accepting of myself than I was nine years ago, fifteen and more.
I am not ruminating on the past. This clip shines a light on how I can help you. Without that painful experience, I would not be here, getting to write this from home and in turn, help others.
La Mia Bella Vita – My Life is Beautiful – A Success Story
A month after the show ended, I took whatever job I could get, determined to move on. I hopped from one to the next, hunting for greater pay, and demanding more because I brought business ownership experience and a slew of other attributes that came with a college degree, being a mother of 4 sons, volunteering, online writing, and years as a stylist. I went from temp law clerk to educator to campus director to salon manager to executive director while completing a Master’s in English.
We lost our house but paid off our debt, saved money, and purchased a house by the bay. I have my dream car (Mustang Mach – -E), my husband is a TV News Director, and my children are unbelievably successful. Why? I didn’t give up. They didn’t give up. We didn’t give up. We got knocked down, and yeah, our asses hurt. But we persevered. In addition, my marriage is the best it has ever been. And now, I want to help and inspire you to unimaginable successes. Because if you are reading this, you want it and reach it, you shall!
Online Beauty Career Coaching
As an educator and cosmetology school director with a psychology background and years of experience in the beauty industry, I have tremendous insight into beauty careers. I can help you decide if this is the right path for you. One, two, or as many sessions as you like should suffice. However, I am always here as a sounding board. Many students sat at my desk, asking to drop out once they realized cosmetology wasn’t their passion. Unfortunately, this leads to a financial burden on the student if it is a private school and they have student loans.
I must make this clear: I AM NOT A LICENSED THERAPIST OR PSYCHOLOGIST. SESSIONS ARE NOT MEANT AS A SUBSTITUTE FOR THERAPY OR MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELING. I offer career advice, listen to you, and work on the skills required to be a successful cosmetologist in a career coaching capacity.
Once you schedule a coaching session, I send a questionnaire to understand and decipher your needs. Each coaching session is $75 per hour. However, earn 10% off if you book three consecutive sessions. In addition, I have a Black Friday or Cyber Monday special for new clients until 12/31/2024. The first session is only $50.
What Beauty Career Coaching Offers
Confidence
Skill Building
Beauty Career Choices (you can also purchase my book for ideas)
Career Advice
Cosmetology School Options
Short-term Goals
Long-term Goals
Happy Styling!
Do you want to work in the beauty field? I discuss all questions about the beauty industry in my book, The Future Professional’s Guide to Cosmetology. Email your inquiries to asktheprostylist@gmail.com or call me at 732-800-6416 (during EST business hours). Follow me on TikTok for tutoring and site subscription updates. Coming soon: An online learning platform for cosmetologists preparing to take their state board exams. Online tutoring is currently available, and subscription to downloadable content is underway. Happy Styling!
Ask the Pro Stylist is now an online learning, subscription platform. I offer live tutoring sessions to help you pass your cosmetology state board exam in any state. In addition, I provide beauty career coaching sessions. Finally, once the subscription platform is live, subscribers can download informational content to help practice for the written and practical exams. Please read further for details about all three services.
Eyebrow and Eyelash Tinting Services in New York: UPDATE
There has been an update on eyebrow and eyelash tinting services in New York. As a result, all licensed cosmetologists, students, and guests must be aware of this. Read further for the important information from the New York State Division of Licensing.
Cosmetology Tutor for State Board Exams: Book Your Online Session Now
Do you need a cosmetology tutor or coach to help you pass your written or practical state board licensure exam? I can help if you feel overwhelmed, lack the confidence to succeed, or have let some time pass since graduation from cosmetology school.
I am a licensed cosmetologist and educator in New York and New Jersey, having worked as the director of various cosmetology schools. Additionally, I tutor many cosmetology graduates, with 100% of my students passing the state board exam, and publishing a guide to cosmetology school.
If you think I can help, please read below for instructions on scheduling your online cosmetology tutoring session (useful for all 50 states).
Tretinoin Beauty Trend for Antiaging: Does it Live up to the Hype?
Does the tretinoin beauty trend live up to the antiaging hype? TikTok fans, influencers, and creators say it does. But of course, they do, for if they have over 10,000 followers, they get paid to promote products. Therefore, how true are the tretinoin beauty claims made by non-professionals using filters? This beauty professional/blogger has some thoughts on the topic.
I am transitioning away from my beloved beauty industry into writing. You may have noticed the change in recent posts, adding poetry and the short salon murder story on the next page. I hope you will continue to support me in my efforts. If it resonates, shoot me an email at DerdreAHaggerty@gmail.com.
I have fitness motivation for females 50 and over. But if you don’t want to work hard then skip this advice. Fitness goals, along with anything important, require effort. I lost 15 pounds in 6 weeks for my eldest son’s wedding. I promise you, it was not easy, but it was achievable.
I am slowly transitioning away from my beloved beauty industry into writing. You may have noticed the change in recent posts and the addition of poetry. I hope you will continue to support me in my efforts. Please enjoy the following poem on the next page. If it resonates, shoot me an email at DerdreAHaggerty@gmail.com. You are EVERYTHING! Have a blessed day.
March is upon us. Are you weighing your post-high school educational options? Will you take a gap year for a much-needed break or head to a trade school, college, or hair school? There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Nor is any response incorrect. Only your choice will work for you. However, the following provides a little insight into helping make the decision right for you.
Love is in the hair, eyes, skin, and lips for Valentine’s Day. Ask the Pro Stylist is offering some tried-and-true hair care and the best beauty product recommendations that will have your love interest begging for your attention.
What is beautiful about getting old? Everything! As a woman in her mid-fifties, I can affirmatively declare there is beauty in aging. Unfortunately, some of our younger counterparts might not agree. Where is the attractiveness of maturing? From grey hair and wrinkles to wisdom, beauty is not only in the eye of the beholder but can be found within every crease. Each line tells a picturesque story and our journeys are stunning. We own each furrow and no one has the right to make us feel any less than what we’ve earned. Instead of advice on how to slow the aging process, or what products take years off, today I reclaim my beauty at 56 and want to empower you to do the same with my thoughts on aging, experience with ageism, women I admire, and health esteem tips.
Nail damage due to trauma can be painful and unsightly. In addition, there is a risk of the fingernail or toenail completely falling off and never growing back. Due to an injury, my thumb on my right hand looked hideous. Fortunately, I could fix my thumbnail. However, this is not always the case. Learn how and why in today’s beauty how-to. Please note: the following blog post is not medical advice, nor should it be used in place of seeking professional help.
The Gainful Employment Rule has come under scrutiny within the beauty industry. Especially, if one is listening only to the owners of private cosmetology schools. The overall gist of the directive is to protect student debt from reaching unaffordable heights and increase the transparency of for-profit educational institutions. However, not everyone thinks the GER properly reflects the beauty industry due to irregular income reporting. Please read further to learn information regarding the rule, and how this will impact cosmetology and cosmetology students.
A reader has a question about hair coloring. Specifically, she wants to know what steps to follow for her Brazilian Blowout, low lights, and clarifying shampoo. Read on for my answer in this Wednesday’s Q&A.
A reader wants to know what gel nail polish brands I recommend for dermatitis. Read further for suggestions to help with skin challenges in this Wednesday’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist.
Is beauty school for you? Finding the right cosmetology school takes more than a quick online search. The bigger the corporation, the better its marketing team. This means one beauty school will always pop up whether you search for hair, nails, or skin. So then, how do you find the best fit for your needs? Ask the Pro Stylist has published her first book: The Future Professional’s Guide to Cosmetology: Is Beauty School for You? Read on to learn how this guide can help you determine if Cosmetology School is in your cards and where to purchase my first venture!
Need a few beauty tips for younger-looking hair? Are you ready to shave it all off? Wait! Hair ages like skin and as a result, make us appear older than we are. However, with a few beauty tips and the following advice, you can have younger-looking hair. If you are of a certain age and want luxurious locks, then read on for a youthful hair guide in today’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist.
What are you worth? In your hunt for employment do you hold out for the best salary, or take the first offer? Do you stay in a toxic work environment because you receive a paycheck? What is more valuable to you; money, family memories, or mental health?
Going a bit off-topic today, I am sharing my career dilemma as I search for the best job offer, and why it is necessary to decline anything less than your value. Today’s objective is to inspire readers with a few tips I employ that keep my motivation at its peak. My goal is to provide insight into my journey from toxic instability to positive permanence to encourage those in similar circumstances. Thanks to the love and support of my family, I will never settle for less than my worth!
Avid readers know my obsession with eyelashes. However, I’ve given up the semi-permanent individuals or clusters and am returning to mascara. In my opinion, the best lash extensions come in a tube. Find out why with Ask the Pro Stylist in today’s favorite beauty product of the week.
My employment advice is to simply work hard. Hell must have frozen over because I am agreeing with Kim Kardashian. Nope, not a hater, just never a Kardashian fan. However, I always admired her business acumen and intelligence. She is studying to be a lawyer for Goodness sake. Kim K.’s guidance for women in business resonates with me. Find out why in today’s work advice with Ask the Pro Stylist.
Why Eyelash Extensions Could Damage Your Natural Lashes
Eyelash extensions are eye opening; make us appear younger, and are sexy as hell. However, they could damage your natural lashes. Find out how to save your natural lashes in today’s beauty advice with Ask the Pro Stylist.
Considering beauty school? Is a cosmetology program right for you? As the Executive Director of a popular cosmetology school, an educator, and a licensed cosmetologist, I can answer that question. Read on to see if you should enter beauty school.
Hair Consultations are Important: Consult Your Stylist for Chemical Questions
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Yes, hair consultations are important. Therefore, consult your stylist for chemical questions regarding your hair. Because, I will never advocate for the at-home, kitchen-sink stylist. You aren’t trained. Sorry, the hard truth might hurt. So, find out why I am so harsh on this week’s question for Ask the Pro Stylist.
The beauty of aging: “I am strong, I am invincible, I am woman!” Helen Reddy’s lyrics resonate as I finish my Master’s Degree in English at ASU and reflect upon one of my last literature courses this semester. The final book focusing on WWII is a resounding recollection of the strength of women, which only deepens my resolve to evolve to be the best I can be. “I CAN DO ANYTHING!”
What do beauty pageants, feminism, and Trump have in common? You might be surprised by the answer, or not, found in the following, highly recommended book by Hilary Levey Friedman. Grab your copy today and head to the beach for a great summer read!
Are eyelash extensions on your “I want to, but am not sure list?” If you are over 40 you might be wondering if they are worth it. I say, “YES!” DO IT!” Find out why in today’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist.
Microneedling might just be the Fountain of Youth, or at least a collagen boost to promote anti-aging. Look at my before and after photos after just one procedure to see the benefits. Then, read on to find out why Lutronic GENIUS is this Friday’s Favorite beauty procedure of the week.
French gel manicure maintenance is simple when you aren’t using hair color. Find out how to keep your white bright in today’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist.
Do you need hair color suggestions that make you look younger? Perhaps you read Friday’s product selections to brighten gray hair and saw my remark about aging. If not, this week’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist is from a “young-older woman” that wants my hair color opinion.
Five best products that brighten curly gray hair will also hydrate. While it is great to have bright locks, your curls also need moisture to help the shine pop. Find out what Ask the Pro Stylist recommends for you in this Friday’s Favorite beauty product of the week!
Are you confused about keratin treatments and hair color? It appears many are, and rightfully so. If you aren’t a professional and are receiving information from a stylist that isn’t full of details, you might be in a head spin. Additionally, there are many online fakes who profess to give the right answers. But, sadly, they just add to the confusion. So, today I hope to put to rest some misinformation with another Q&A from Ask the Pro Stylist.
How was your weight gain during lock down? Did you pack on the pounds? What other unhealthy habits did you acquire or lose? Find out in the following pandemic beauty survey conducted by Advanced Dermatology.
Occlusive Argan oil works to moisturize aging skin. Additionally, it is the perfect accompaniment to your skincare regimen that provides that dewy glow. Find out what occlusive Argan oil is and which beauty product I recommend to hydrate dry skin in this week’s favorite for Friday.
Coloring hair at home is an absolute no for me. I do not encourage it. Regardless of the brand, there will inevitably be a costly error. Find out why in today’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist.
Deirdre Haggerty is a cosmetology tutor as well as author and owner of Ask the Pro Stylist. If you need help for the New York Cosmetology State Board Exam read further.
One of the hottest beauty trends for the new year gives bouncy waves with simpler curling. Because of the pandemic, more women are taking up styling at home. Thanks to CHI Spin N Curl, bouncy waves are easily attainable. Find out why in this week’s beauty product review.
Best Gift Idea for Him: Seats Down You Will Love This Christmas Gift Idea
The best gift for him this Christmas is seats down a must-buy. Find out which Christmas gift idea is tops for this beauty blogger in the weekly Ask the Pro StylistFriday Favorite.
At Home Hair Color Tips: Coloring Salt And Pepper Hair Light Or Medium Blonde
At home hair color tips are again at the forefront of today’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist. A reader wants to know the best way to color her salt and pepper hair to light/medium blonde.
Maskne Help: Treatment For Mask Acne On Aging Skin
By now you have experienced maskne; mask acne from prolonged wearing of face coverings. Fortunately, there is help. However, aging skin requires a little extra TLC. Discover what to do in today’s beauty product review of the week .
Why Magnetic Eyelashes Are This Friday’s Favorite Beauty Product Of The Week
Magnetic eyelashes are a must-have beauty product for those less adept at applying false ones. Eylure is this Friday’s Favorite. Find out why in Ask the Pro Stylist’s weekly beauty product review.
Same Day Hair Color And Keratin, A Popular Hair Service Question
Is a same day hair color and keratin possible? Of course, it is. Find the answer to a popular hair service question in today’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist.
Cyber Monday is upon us, with more shoppers likely bringing historic sales than Black Friday. For luxury beauty gift ideas turn to Neiman Marcus, having recently unveiled its iconic Christmas Book.
Photo Courtesy of Neiman Marcus PR Cyber Monday Luxury Gift Ideas
This week’s Bb Glow product review is my go-to haircare. It is a must for styling and sexy blowouts that last. Read today’s assessment why Bumble and Bumble’s Thermal Protection Mist and Bond-Building Styler are this Friday’s favorite.
At Home Fashion Color Correction: How to Remove Violet
For at home fashion color correction, we turn back the clock a few years to my time teaching at Paul Mitchell. A reader wants advice to correct faded violet in today’s Q&A with Ask the Pro Stylist!
Employment Tips: Advice to Get Hired in the Beauty Industry
It might seem early for employment tips right now. Especially as the country is in a major crisis and people are dying. However, I am trying to be positive and looking forward to getting back to work. As I am sure you are. But, if you do not have a job to go back to, I have advice to get you hired in the beauty industry.
Staying beautiful during the Coronavirus pandemic might be at the bottom of your to-do list. With teaching kids at home and loss of incomes, why would your beauty regimen be of concern? However, too many hair and nail salons are staying open under the advice of state and country-wide social distancing. And this is simply unsafe. Therefore, if you must color and cut your hair or do your nails, I have some tips to help you through this difficult time.
Lip lines got you down? Turn that frown around and smile with a new beauty product that combats unsightly lip lines. Find it in this week’s beauty review
Best Gluten-Free Lipstick That Hydrates Is Friday’s Favorite
Beauty Pick
The best gluten-free lipstick that also hydrates is this Friday’s favorite beauty pick of the week. Why gluten-free for cosmetics? Find out in today’s beauty review.
Today’s beauty review is of a shimmering highlighter quad from
Osmosis Colour, ideal for New Year’s Eve. Add just the right amount of sparkle as
you ring in the new year with 4 hot shades. Learn how in this week’s Friday
favorite.
Shimmering Highlighter
Quad Perfect for New Year’s Eve: Beauty Review
TGIF beautiful. Since it is Friday, it is once again beauty product review time with Ask the Pro Stylist. This week’s fave is brand new from Osmosis Colour. Enjoy the launch of their shimmering Highlighter Quad for $34!
To start, this gorgeous, gluten-free highlighter collection features 4 illuminating shades. Each one contains an antioxidant-rich, hydrating mineral formula. As a result, it gives high impact and a luminous glow.
Features & Benefits of Shimmering Highlighter
To begin, the shimmering highlighter quad features Rose (a blush shimmer). Also, Pearl (a pale nude shimmer) with Bronze (a copper shimmer) for added glow. And finally, Gold (a pale-yellow shimmer) for warmth.
In addition, each has an antioxidant-rich, hydrating mineral formula. All shades in the Osmosis Colour Highlighting Quad include Moringa Seed Oil, aka the miracle tree. The oil extracted from it is rich in phytonutrients, which provide major beauty benefits for the skin.
Additionally, it’s antibacterial and antimicrobial qualities
help keep skin blemish free. What’s more, its powerful antioxidants protect
skin by neutralizing pollutants and free-radicals.
Best yet, this miracle oil even slows the speed of
premature aging! As a result, you will look beautiful and radiant while
providing nourishment to the skin.
Highlighter That
Does it All
Perfect for the cheekbones, temples, bridge of nose, and
eyes. Easily swirl a blend of all 4 illuminating shades or choose individual
colors for different areas.
Makeup Tips
BRONZE – Use as a shimmery bronzer or to add a glow to the
skin
ROSE – A pretty, pink poppy blush, use on lower lip to
make it appear larger
PEARL – Apply in the inner corner of the eyes to make them
appear brighter, then blend at the top of the cupid’s bow for an enhanced, larger
lip
GOLD – Place in the center of the lid to make the eyes
appear larger
Happy Styling!
For more beauty product reviews like today’s shimmering highlighter quad
visit next Friday. If you have a
question or a product for review, please email me at asktheprostylist@gmail.com. Until
then, happy styling!
Cosmetology tutor, career coach, writer, author, NY & NJ State licensed cosmetologist, store and salon manager, beauty educator and executive school director, Deirdre Haggerty has been actively involved in the hair and beauty industry in New York & New Jersey for 40 years.
Now - get online help to pass your licensing exams in any of the states throughout the country or beauty career advice. Send Deirdre an email for more information regarding an online tutoring or career coaching session for the written and practical exams at asktheprostylist@gmail.com. (732) 800-6416
Cosmetology tutor, career coach, writer, author, NY & NJ State licensed cosmetologist, store and salon manager, beauty educator and executive school director, Deirdre Haggerty has been actively involved in the hair and beauty industry in New York & New Jersey for 40 years.
Now - get online help to pass your licensing exams in any of the states throughout the country or beauty career advice. Send Deirdre an email for more information regarding an online tutoring or career coaching session for the written and practical exams at asktheprostylist@gmail.com. (732) 800-6416
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